A Bond Beyond Words: Alyssa & Bianca’s Story
This Hispanic Heritage Month, Big Brothers Big Sisters of Tampa Bay is honored to share the story of Alyssa and Bianca, a Big Sister and Little Sister whose connection grew stronger through trust, love, and their shared language.
When Alyssa first considered becoming a Big Sister, she worried she didn’t have enough time. But something told her to make space. “It’s been more rewarding than I ever expected,” she says. “I’ve received so much more than I’ve given, especially love.”
Her Little Sister, Bianca, couldn’t agree more. “I’m fully grateful,” she shares. “She’s someone I can trust, my go-to for advice.”
The two were first matched when Bianca was just six years old. Both shy by nature, they discovered comfort in speaking Spanish with each other and quickly realized how much they had in common. Alyssa recalls one of the early moments that defined their bond: helping Bianca find the courage to step onto a stage, despite her shyness. “I had to help myself in order to help her,” Alyssa explains. “We’re mirrors of each other.”
Now 17, Bianca dreams about her future. After years of changing her mind about college and careers, she has set her sights on the military, hoping to one day serve as a guidance counselor. Through every step, Alyssa has been there to encourage her.
“Where would I be without her?” Bianca wonders. “I’ll forever cherish the memories. It’s been a rollercoaster of fun since I was six years old.”
Alyssa says she found something she didn’t even know she was missing: “The world needs more people willing to give their hearts and their time. The bare minimum to be a Big is having love to give, and that’s all you need.”
Their story is also a reminder of how important accessibility is. When Alyssa joined, BBBS staff explained the program in Spanish, making her feel welcome and confident. Today, she encourages others, including her own husband, to get involved. “She will always be my Little,” Alyssa says with a smile.
For both Alyssa and Bianca, what began as a school-based match has grown into a lifelong friendship. It is proof that mentorship not only changes lives, it creates family.
